The mission was to find his gravesite and take a photograph for the Minnesota WWII Memorial in his honor. We arrived by train early yesterday morning and found ourselves in the wonderful little town of Nettuno. The cemetery was within walking distance from the station, so we quickly found ourselves in its beautiful gardens.
We wandered through, enjoying the calm serenity of the honored place. The air was so fresh, infused with scents of pine and freshly cut grass. It was a welcomed change from the thick dusty air of Rome. Finding the gravesite brought about a rush of adrenaline...comparable to finding a treasure chest! I and my five roommates took the challenge of taking the best photograph...we're still not sure who won. It was an honor to be in the presence of a man that George knew so many years ago and still thinks about to this day.
We made our way from the cemetery to a nearby grocery store. It was the biggest food store we had seen yet, selling clothes and other home supplies. Shopping in Italy is a unique experience. I would say the major food groups are produce, fresh bread, and cheese. The options are endless, and the language barrier forces us to try many new foods just because we don't know what is what. I have found that one can't go wrong with bread, but the cheeses can be a bit tricky...and stinky! We all have enjoyed the fresh and extremely cheap produce. My new favorite snack is pear slices with brie and crackers.
Finding restrooms in Italy is quite difficult. The options are as follows: Option #1 Buy something from a cafe and hope they have a toilet. Option #2 Pay a euro to use one, toilet paper costs extra. Option #3 If you're a man, pee in the street (we witnessed this firsthand) Option #4 Find a secluded area and hope no one comes near. Extra tip - Always carry toilet paper just in case. At the train station, we had no choice but option #4, as all the other alternatives did not exist. I hope to never do that again!
The train ride home was blessed with good conversation and gorgeous views of the nearby Apennine Mountains. It was a wonderfully accomplished day.
Anna,
ReplyDeleteMy grandfather, Stanley Gordon Ihlang was Robert's older brother. He passed away in 2003. However, my grandpa talked often of his brother Robert and I am proud to be his great-niece.
My husband and I were able to go to Europe for five weeks the summer of 2001. My husband is a social studies teacher and a lover of history, in particular, WW II. We went to several WW II sites, including my Robert's grave site. I understand the overwhelming nature of the cemetery and am blessed to have been able to see it and my great uncle's name on his grave cross. Thank you so much for posting this. It is nice to know that your grandfather still remembers a treasured piece of my heritage.
Can you tell me more about your Grandpa George? I know my family would love to know more about one of Robert's close friends.
Thank you. Your blog is truly a blessing to me!
Becky Ruder (maiden name Haverly, mother's maiden name, Ihlang)
Becky,
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful connection! I was thinking about Robert's children and grandchildren the day that I was in the cemetery, and it is so wonderful to actually hear from you!
George Dilley is married to my grandma Shirley. He is from Minnesota and currently lives in Ellston, Iowa. He has so many memories of his time in the service. He would be so delighted to share with you!
What is your email address? I think that would be the best way for him to contact you. Oh, I'm so excited about this! How wonderful!
Anna,
ReplyDeleteI am excited as well! My e-mail address is becky.ruder@gmail.com
Please tell your grandfather I look forward to any information he can give me about their experiences together before and during the war.
Thank you so much for your post and your willingness to connect me with your grandfather. You have no idea how deeply I appreciate it!
God bless,
Becky
By the way ladies, my mom (Shirley Ihlang, Robert's niece) has the letter that George Dilley sent home notifing of Robert's death. I talked to her last night and she was thrilled to hear about Anna's post and that George still remembers Robert so fondly.
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Oops, just talked to mom again and she said the letter was from a guy named "Eddie" with no last name. Maybe George knows "Eddie"? It would be so fun to have mom and George meet!
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